Pamela "Pammy" Rafftery

pamela rafftery

September 11, 1967 ~ April 22, 2022

Age 54 of Forest Lake/Ramsey. Loving Mom, Grandma, Daughter & Sister, passed away on April 22, 2022. Preceded in death by mother, Karen Vaillancourt; step-father, Bucky Vaillancourt. Survived by sons, Shane (Sara), Nathan (Brianna) Hunter; grandchildren, Jasmyn, Madison, Noah, Dustin, Emma; father, Terry; siblings, Michelle, Chrissy, Kelli Shaw, Greg Heintz, Tabitha (Jason) Decosse; nieces, nephews, other relatives & friends. Pammy was an outdoor enthusiast, she loved horseback riding, four-wheeling, fishing & camping. She was a successful business owner and loved to spend time with family & friends. A celebration of Pammy’s life 3 PM Friday, May 6th with visitation beginning at 1 PM at Roberts Family Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to the family. The service will be livestreamed here: https://view.oneroomstreaming.com/authorise.php?k=1650943163180384

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  1. My condolences to you Michelle and Chris and your extended family with the loss of your sister Pammy. “Big Hugs” As you know, Pam was always my partner in crime growing up and always made me laugh. When we were hanging out there was never a dull moment with us. We were always being mischievous, but never hurting anyone. With just a couple quick memories from playing tennis in our skirts and heels at 1 am with our car headlights on the court so we could see to play – to putting fake money on the ground while we sat by and watched what people did with it. I could go on all day about the fun we had. I can still hear her contagious laugh during all those times. Pam, you will be missed dearly, but never forgotten. Thank you for the great laughs and memories and thank you so much for being a one of my best friends! Love, Diane Proulx Orlando, FL

  2. We had Sooo Much Fun Snipe Hunting. 😂😂😂 and WhaFun Catching Absolutely Beautifully Colored Moths At The Pine Lake Cabin In Finlayson, Mn In The Mid 70’s.. Love and Miss You Dearly Pammy..!!! Love Uncle Robbie

  3. Chris and Family, I am so very sorry for you loss. You are in our thoughts. Know that we are here if you need anything.

  4. So sorry for your loss. May God bless you and give you strength during this difficult time. 🙏🙏 Jackie Heintz (Greg and Tabi’s aunt)

  5. Pammy made her appearance all of the way into Orlando, Florida this early evening after her Celebration of Life today from Minnesota. Knowing a sign that she is with your mother Karen. (See attached Photo) at 7.44 PM EST – Orlando, FL. Michelle and Chris, if you ever want to chat, please give me a call…612-987-1471…I am here to talk. Or even Shane, if you want to hear more fun stories about your mom and how well she did looking after you while SHE was still growing up herself. I am always here to tell you how good a mother and friend she was…If any of you are in the area, please give me a call. I apologize Nathan and all of grandkids that I never had that opportunity to meet you. Hopefully, One day soon!


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